Breasts
Breasts have got to be one of the best things
about being a girl. Men, as lovely as they can oftentimes be, cannot
truly appreciate the wonder of the female breasts. Nipples, nice as they
are, and universal as they come, do not compare to the total wonder of
the breast as a whole. Regardless of size, color, shape, firmness, or
naturalness, the breast is a fascinating thing.
One must understand that the breast of each woman is entirely unique. To
say that like a snowflake "there are no two alike" might sound silly,
but it is actually true. In reality, unless they have been surgically
altered, breasts are not usually identical. Generally there can be
anywhere from a minor difference to an extreme difference between the
two breasts of any single woman. Really, the can be different.
Difference can range from the aureole, the coloring around a woman's
nipple, to the actual texture of the breast, whether it is lumpy or
smooth. To gauge these things I recommend studying a pair of breasts
quite closely. Start farther away and actually look at the breasts. You
may have always thought they were identical, but as you actually start
to look you will be begin to see some minor differences.
Have your lovely assistant at the ready, or if you are experimenting
with this on your own a mirror handy, and ask them to stand with their
feet flat on the ground. Stand in a comfortable position, naturally, and
allow the breasts to fall where they will. Begin by taking note of the
obvious things that will be different. Look at the hang of the breasts.
Unlike what Playboy might lead you to believe, breasts do not always
hang evenly on the chest. One may be a bit lower then the other, one
could be perkier while the other sags. Occasionally a breast will hang
more to the left or right then it's partner; take note of which breast
seems to be different, as this will be useful for further study later.
As with the penis not every breast is the same size or shape. Breasts
come in a number of different sizes that are usually donated by cup size
which can very from A to the ever popular DD and occasionally larger
(although perhaps not comfortably larger). As some women will even tell
you, from one breast to the other you can have a cup size variation,
making shopping for bras a real pain the brassiere. The sizes will very
from woman to woman, and nothing can predict what size breasts a girl
will end up with. Perhaps you can recall a girl named Punky Brewster
(real name Soleil Moon Frye) who was cursed with gigantomastia and had
to have reduction surgery to make her set more manageable. In the end it
is puberty and genes that will determine the size and shape of your
breasts and there is no use trying to rush it if you are waiting. It
will happen if it is going to happen, be patient.
The shape of breasts is also different from woman to woman. As with the
penis which can very in shape from very straight to curved to tied in a
knot (fairly rare), so does the breast have several variation for shape.
Perhaps the most common and often the aesthetic ideal is the slightly
rounded upper slope the works towards a point at the nipple, a general
sort of cone shape with the nipple on top. Some breasts can be shaped
like a J Starting with a gentle slope and then suddenly curving
outwards. Some are like arrows very pointy and sharp, whereas other can
be just round soft cushiony pillows that just beg to be laid upon. Never
assume you know the shape of the breast, as bras are made to conform
all breasts into what is considered a "natural" shape, generally fairly
round and constrained. Once they are loose and free you will really
begin to see what you have found. And now, onto some of the other fun
aspects of a precocious pair.
Notice the aureole. Perhaps the left is darker
then the right. The coloring of the nipples is very rarely perfectly
even and this may be the first thing you will notice as being different
between the breasts. Some women tend to have very large aureole, others
tend towards a smaller, and occasionally the coloring may be impossible
to see from a distance, looking more like a man's nipple. Women with
lighter skin can often times have very dark nipples, which my surprise
many. The same is true of women with dark skin, it is hard to say what
color the surrounding aureole will be until you just take of the bra and
have a peak.
At this point, we come to one of the most interesting parts of the
breast, which is something that men and women share. The nipples.
Nipples, like the aureole, can also come in different shapes, colors and
sizes and can vary from one breast to the other on the same women. But
before you take a dive in for a closer look at those nipples let us
discuss them in a little detail, as there may be some things you didn't
know
Firstly, not all nipples harden immediately upon exposure. Women's
nipples don't just automatically harden up and stand at attention for
everything. I've met some girls who can come in out of the cold and have
perfectly relaxed and tranquil nipples that will just fold easily into
the breasts, leaving little more then a small crease. Other women have
very sensitive breasts that will stand at attention all the time simply
for the rub of the fabric. Sometimes the one nipple will be hard and the
other soft, there are always differences.
The nipple is not the only part of the breast that will harden with
excitement. In fact the entire aureole in some women will harden and
fill with blood just as the penis. For men, arousal causes blood to head
the penis, in women the blood flows to the breasts. If you have ever
thought that during sex your girlfriend's breasts were actually bigger,
you weren't hallucinating, they probably were. As women become excited
the breasts fill with blood and expand, just as the penis does, making
them more sensitive and causing a greater sense of arousal in women, as
is also true of men upon seeing a lovely pair.
Size however, is not the topic at hand, as we are talking about the
special erectile tissue around the nipple. Look at the nipples as the
harden, and notice the hardening that also occurs around the aureole,
you can actually watch as the area pricks and puckers up, becoming more
sensitive to touch and stimulation. Now step back and examine again and
you will notice that the erection of the nipples is also not identical
between the two breasts. One nipple can be longer, firmer, and harder
then the other when erect. In a sense, it's like having two penises of
different size attached to the same body, and both want to do their own
thing. It can be as fun as it is frustrating.
Now look at those nipples, and really, look with your eyes, which means
put your hands down for a second, okay? Notice the shape of the nipple.
The shape of a nipple is a wonderful magical thing, and again, differs
from woman to woman, and occasionally from breast to breasts. Some
nipples will be boxy and square and stand out a great distance from the
breast. Some are very small when erect, presenting little pink pinpoints
against a milky white expanse. Some are rounder, some shallow, and
occasionally you can even have the inverted nipple which will not poke
outwards at all, but like a innie belly-button, goes inward.
The colors of the nipple will also very, it can be the same as the
surrounding aureole, or it can be darker or lighter, it really just
depends on the breasts. You can have more coloring towards the bottom of
the nipple and more of a faded whiteness towards the tip, or vice
versa. It all depends on the breast and can easily be different between
any two. In general, as with breast size the actual color of the nipples
cannot be determined until you actually see them. Don't assume just
because she is a fair haired blonde that she will have soft pink
aureoles with light pointy pink nipples. Rather let yourself be in for a
surprise.
For your patience, is a reward, now you can pick
up your hands and actually touch them. Don't grab, don't pull, and
don't act like your handling grapefruits, as you would not want someone
to manhandle your dick that way. Start first with one hand and gently
cup and lift one breast and then the other. Notice the weight of the set
in your hands. As with everything else the weight of the breast can
vary between the set as it will between different women.
Actually the weight of breasts can shift depending on the time of month
and the amount of arousal. Again, the filling of the breasts with blood
will change the wait, as will a women's overall monthly cycle. The cycle
of a woman will create several shifts in the breast. A woman who pays
careful attention to her breasts can actually anticipate her point of
highest fertility with a fair amount of accuracy, as the breast will
become slightly larger, more sensitive to environmental conditions and
often times darker when a woman is at her height for conception. This
can be a handy thing to know if you would prefer to spend more time not
being pregnant. Generally if you know your most "normal" time you can
use that to compare difference in your breasts during the month that
will hint at the other functions of your body.
Aside from weight, notice the texture of the breasts. This can also be
different. One breast can be lumpier and feel more like dough with
raisins in it, while the other may be smoother in texture, with less of a
lumpy feel. Regardless of the many things you may thing you know, a
woman's breast is lumpy. It all those lymph nodes and glands in there
that create these natural and safe lumps. A bad lump is one that feels
more like a rock or pebble, something hard that has no give, if you feel
anything like that, go to a doctor A.S.A.P as that is generally a sign
of something bad.
The texture, the weight, the size, the shape, the color, these are all
things that make breasts pleasant interesting and fun to be around. As
for handling these lovely things, well, again, that too can very from
woman to woman and takes a certain amount of patience and attention on
the part of the attendee to get it right.
A good rule of thumb here is again the penis
analogy. If you wouldn't do it there, I don't recommend doing it to a
breast. Biting with the teeth may seem like a good idea, but unless you
know that is what a girl likes, you might want to start soft and see
where it goes. For handling, I don't recommend squeezing or rotating the
nipples like radio dials, as this can be painful, leave bruises, and
frequently is just downright unappealing. The light touch, gentle
kissing, sucking, rubbing, with a bit of experimentation and an
awareness to the reaction it produces, are good starting points that can
lead to great things.
However, again, keep in mind that as with all penises, not all breast
are equally sensitive or identically reactive to the same thing. The
gentle squeeze, followed by a quick pull outwards, and then pressing
inwards that will drive one woman to orgasm my cause another to turn on
the lights and ask you to leave. A quick flick of the tongue followed by
a nip of your teeth might seem divine to your first girlfriend, but
could leave your next cold. Listen to the breasts, let them show you and
tell you what they want, let them be your guide and don't try to draw a
map of uniformity onto them. In the end it will be a better experience
all around.
For the finale let me introduce you to yet one more interesting and
fascinating aspect of the breasts. Like the clitoris proper handling of
the breast as a whole can be enough to bring a woman to an orgasm. In
most women this can be a difficult, and sometimes, impossible task, as
many women are actually uncomfortable with their own breasts. The trick
to this is really allowing yourself to relax and enjoying the pleasure
that your breast can give you.
Again, care and attention must be paid to where the breast is the most
sensitive. It is not always the nipple that is the best area to
stimulate, again, the erectile tissue encompasses the nipple and areole,
and sometimes a bit further outward. Experiment with the entire area
until you find just the right spot to give attention too. Try pressing
gently with your fingers and tongue, sucking, and rubbing all the areas
around the nipple and work outward until you hit upon what I like to
think of as the allusive b-sport. It may take some time, but it is worth
the effort and hard work.
So remember the next time you see what you might like to refer to as the
perfect rack, that breasts really are strange and unique things that
deserve more appreciation then just a mere ogle or manhandling. The need
to be appreciated, respected and loved as something wonderfully given
to girls that deserve attention, care, and repeated visitation, until
all nooks, crannies, and avenues are fully explored. Everyone is
different, so allow your natural curiosity and fascination flow, and
your cups will run over with new found respect.